I could date someone who already had kids from a previous relationship or something, sure. But I am not putting my body thru pregnancy/childbirth LMFAO like not a chance in hell. Thought I might be preg a few years back (wasn't) and I was looking up abortion clinics nearby at the speed of light, didn't even consider keeping it for a second. reply
Wow looking at the comment section we are putting an end to generation trauma. Most of you are not having kids because if you did, you’d want to financially, physically, and emotionally give them the best
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Yes, I love them and I want to be a mother. This is the reason me and my friend stop being close. She got mad at me for wanting kids with my boyfriend tf… I hate people who subject all kids to the same box. Of course your weedhead uncles kids wont be the same as the ones you decide to raise. I could go on for hours. “I hate kids.” your a weir...... 1 reply
Tbh I just dont know.....I'm still a young adult in no position to have them and although I don't want my shitty brother to be the only one passing the bloodline but at the same time the thought of coming from work to whining crying messiness and immediate stress gives me such a big ick its genuinely stressing me out bc in my culture theres a lot o...... reply
To become a person like me? Hell no. I would rather just help take care of my friends kids.
Also I'm not responsible enough, and I'll be way to busy to give them proper emotional, mental and physical care. reply
I always liked the idea of adoption rather than having biological kids. Plus the idea of adopting someone from a bad situation and making them my priority makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. So many children in the adoption system get overlooked because they aren't a newborn, and that is just so disgusting to me. I can't think of anything bett...... reply
I can’t have kids because I’d see them as investments—something I pour time, money, and effort into, expecting a return. but there’s no guarantee they’ll turn out the way I want or give back what I put in, so it’s just not worth it to me. 1 reply
