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i'm aroace and honestly i was relieved when i found out that concept existed bc it meant me not having a crush on anyone growing up was completely normal so idk if you're aroace exactly if you're viewing it like being someone who doesn't want a romantic relationship instead of being someone who's had trouble finding someone they wanted to be in a r......   reply

Braindead MFS replying that aroace people don't exist open the schools bro   2 reply

No way people HERE of all places are saying aro/ace people don’t exist and it’s not a real thing that’s like saying gay people don’t exist be so fr just bc you don’t understand something or can’t relate doesn’t mean it’s not real   2 reply

Hi, an aroace here! Aroace doesn't mean you think you are unloveable, it's rather a self-confidence issue. Salty The Femboy and Ponk give pretty good answers to your concern, so I don't wanna elaborate further. Have a nice day!   reply

Seeing literal gays here saying aroace isn't real is crazy I thought all of u are fam lmfaooo   1 reply

I think your thoughts are stemming from self confidence issues. It’s hard and I’m still learning to love myself too. You got this and don’t worry too much about the what ifs because you’re worth it. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~   reply

No such thing really, ppl who say they are "aroace" are either: kids, traumatized, mentally unwell, or have self esteem/self image issues (this one definitely applies to you based on your post btw) - OR just desperately trying to latch onto some kind of "kweer" identity to make up for lack of a personality. Literally every time. I have never met/se......   5 reply

The replies made feel sad :( Is it that hard to accept that some people don't feel sexual and romantic attraction? Do you think I like being this way? When everything revolves around romantic love in mainstream media? You don't have to relate and understand everything to accept it   2 reply

Being aroace NEVER means being "unlovable." You know romantic love isn't the only shit. I think you shouldn't stress about labels too much. You have a long road ahead of you to figure things out about you self identity. It might be that you won't ever have romantic feelings for someone or maybe it's just a self confidence issue or trauma idk I can'......   1 reply