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genuinely asking
I am not sure to tell anyone about this in rl yet.
My grandma died years ago, and my grandpa likes her a lot and hasn't gotten anyone new.He keeps telling me I'm his favorite out of my siblings (probably because I'm the most Asian-looking one) and that I am his wife reincarnated, that I look exactly like her. (I don't know if it's due to him being drunk; he doesn't often say things like this.) We barely even talk till now.I'm cool with that. But he keeps hugging and kissing me (on the mouth); he even opened his mouth. He told me not to tell anyone and keeps saying when we're alone he has something to tell me.Should I be concerned?
I agree with everyone that distance is the right thing to do. Do not be alone with him, and to tell someone immediately, but since I don't know your family situation, I can't advice you on who to tell. But please tell someone, anyone or everyone!
Most importantly I want you to know that it does NOT matter why he is doing this. Is he just like this...... 1 reply
Please tell this to a trusted person!! This is sexual Harassment and its just awful. Nobody has the right to touch you like this without your consent especially someone you share blood with. Please be careful, this is not normal. 1 reply
How old are you? This is not normal. Stay away from him. Tell this to someone who will believe you. If you think noone will believe you then stay away from him. Never be alone with him. Take care of yourself. If he is telling you to keep it a secret then that means he is doing something wrong and he knows it. Stay safe and be careful. 2 reply
God... This triggered something I had threw down a drain.
I say this with the best intent possible: run. RUN!!
it doesn't matter if he's your grandpa and he's drunk or anything. Run when you see him. Make an excuse and run off. I know this sounds weirdly cowardly but trust me on this. I don't know if you can tell your family about this or not, cus ...... 1 reply
You should share about it with an adult who you can trust. This is not normal, and absolutely avoid going with him to more private places!!!
Hope nothing will happen to you and everything will be fine 2 reply
If this is genuine, please know this isn’t normal, and please tell someone you trust, whether it’s someone in your family or not. I don’t know how old you are, but a superior at school/uni/work should be able to help you with next steps. 1 reply
First up please know that this is very concerning behaviour and it's important to distance yourself as much as you can. Behaviour like this often starts small leading you to doubt your own perception of the situation and gaslight yourself into thinking it's okay. Furthermore, being drunk is never an excuse for predatory behaviour. EVER. So please b...... reply
