fetishizing gay men

am i like the only one who fucking hates fujoshis?
as a member of the MLM community im sorry to say i dont like yall you get on my nerves and im not trying to be super hateful but whenever i hear a girl fetishizing gay men or talking about like "spicey yaoi" i dunno how to feel it makes me feel kinda bad that thats all they look forward to in these stories and im not saying its all the fujoshis but in general yall make us look bad when all you focus on is the "hot sex" parts of our kind of relationships and the same thing goes for the wlw community if your, not a wlw then dont read yuri its almost a thing of respect to the communities. but just let me know what you think and if im being to harsh