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Should I give this guy one more chance
Ok so I was talking to this guy for a week or so and everything was going fine and I think I really started to like him (this is my first time talking to a guy btw) but literally out of nowhere he asked for nudes and before this there was some other red flags like him saying I love you 6 days into talking and idk he was just like to good at talking to me like he’s talked to a lot of girls before even tho the people who introduced us to each other said that he wasn’t like a play boy and that he hasn’t talked to a lot of girls before anyway I was to scared to give him my number bc I have strict parents so we were talking on discord so I just blocked him after he asked but literally RIGHT after I blocked him he made another account that literally said “(my name) pleaseeeee” like boy you couldn’t even say sorry anywayI want to know your guys opinion if I should give him another chance bc yes I hate the fact that he asked for nudes but he is a teen boy (I’m a teen girl please don’t misunderstand no diddy is happening here ) and I really enjoyed talking to him we joked and laughed a lot together and just really clicked plus my cousin who has talked to a lot of boys before and she said it’s normal for guys to ask that a week in and even her ex asked her for that apparently a week in and I mean to be fair they did almost last year together and her now boyfriend apparently also asked her for something, but they are pretty toxic like she did cheat a few times with her ex and I’m pretty sure he’s also cheating on her and they did break up a few times but idk should I just leave it alone or maybe just stay friends?
block him again and move on, him trying to contact you after you blocked him the first time is always a horrible sign, especially if all he did was reitterate that he wants nudes. You can't trust someone who would go out of their way to block evade to respect any boundaries you have in a future relationship with them. reply
People on discord are crazy because a guy i knew who was dating another guy btw at that time asked for my nudes (like brother weren't you gay) and tried convincing me it was "normal" for teenagers to trade nudes. Saying I love you within a week, asking for nudes when you aren't even in a relationship yet, how characterless is he? Leave him bro why ...... reply
coming from someone whos also a teenage girl in highschool himegirl LEAVE HIM you are so mich better off without him he's only going to bring toxic energy around you and make you genuinely miserable if you continue to pursue any sort of relationship with him for the love of god BLOXK HIM reply
Leave him. Block him. Never talk with him again; that is not normal at all. I have a lot of guy friends, and some guys I have had a thing with and they had never said that. Again, it is NOT normal for a guy to ask for your nudes—that’s just plain disrespectful. There are so much more guys out there, never engage yourself with boys like that. reply
first of all DONT send him nudes if you were ever planning to. if you really actually like him and you feel like you want to give him a chance, then you should unblock him and explain what he did wrong, because it doesn't seem like he understands. i don't think the relationships that your cousin has had are normal because in my experience, nudes ar...... reply
Girl, no it is in fact not normal to be asking for nudes a week into talking.
It is actually weirder and like you said a red flag. If you actually send it to him (please don’t.) he’s going to feel like he can push you a bit further each time if he acts nice enough. I understand it’s hard though but please understand no matter how funny or g...... reply
