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For Lesbianism's & Shapeshifters (non lesbian people please kindly fuck off)
Are genderfluid lesbians who primarly uses masc pronouns, considered valid? Oh and, is it weird for someone to say they're pansexual, but only like trans guys and not cis men?
Girl do whatever you want as long as you're not one of those straight men with beards that look like goblins, and label themselves as "lesbians" because gender is a construct anyway amirite fellas. reply
OP ignore the ppl in the comments being transphobic for a couple giggles and upvotes, your questions are not convoluted, some people are just ignorant.
He/him lesbians are a valid thing and have been for a long time. Pronouns don't define gender exactly they're simply a part of speech. You can still be considered a lesbian.
No it's not weird, tr...... 2 reply
Consider yourself whatever gender you like, use whatever pronouns you like, date whoever you like and have sex with whoever you like and feel free to change these preferences and labels, whenever you like. You are on this earth for a limited time. Don't get stuck in finding the right label to perfectly make yourself understandable to strangers, bec...... 2 reply
im actually a genderfluid lesbian who primarily uses masc pronouns, and there are many lesbians who are masc and go by he/him, he/they etc. it's all valid, the lesbian label has always been really inclusive and accepting
as for being pan but liking only trans guys, idk man that sounds like a weird fetish thing ngl (unless you're t for t obviously...... 1 reply
im bisexually intruding on the convo bc im nosy:
1. he/him lesbian is an established butch queer culture thing afaik, but i think the pronoun is separate from the gender; if the actual gender is giving "he/they" with little to no "she" then it's giving straight. but if its mostly just "they" vibes then flip a coin.
2. saying that's pansexual isn...... reply
