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Seeing your underwear
Man, I suck at formulating questions...please bear with me a minute!
We all know scenes in anime/manga like that: Protagonist-kun can see the underwear of Girl-san, in which context whatsoever. Since I know there are a lot of girls on this platform (minority dude here!) I'm interested in two things: 1)Does it even bother you if something like that happens? 2)Would you like to be notified about it, like "madame, people can see more of you then you might like" (because we all talk like that, right?
For me this is of interest because I'm a writer (kind of?), but often struggle with realistic reactions of women, so I would like some input on that topic. I remember "back in the day", when I visited a girl for the first time (not dating). She was going through her drawer, looking for socks or something and pulled out a bra by accident. I immediately closed my eyes, since for me this was a big thing. But I wonder how girls/women think about it.
And just for clarification: No, I'm not interest in the underwear your wearing right now. No, I don't want to chat with you or something like that. Yes, I have a girlfriend, but she is so open-minded that she is next to useless for me in regard of this question...:(
23yo F. I think the answer is gonna change depending on age and personality.
1)Does it even bother you if something like that happens?
Of course I don't really want my underwear to peak through my clothes, but if it happens, it's not the end of the world. It's a bit embarrassing, but I don't care that much.
As for underwear I'm not wearing, I rea...... reply
Okay so lemme see
1. Define "bother" I mean, if someone was being all pervy about it then yeah, I'd be uncomfortable. But like if it was an accident, then I'd just be embarrassed. But intentional.... that's a different story reply
These are my thoughts:
1) For me, it really depends on the situation.
If it would happen like in your case, if I pulled out a bra from a drawer accidentally, I would only be embarrassed if it were too worn out and I forgot (procrastinated) to throw it away (because it's still comfy to wear at home when no one sees, lol)
For the panties, I would...... 1 reply
I would definitely want to know about it, and I would be bothered. I would probably be a bit flustered but calm down and fix it. After that I think I won't be flustered or anything. reply
15yo F- im not really comfy with males looking at my undies off or on me, women im more comfortable depending on the context
If someone saw my undies in a laundry basket or somewhere in my room if it was a women I would be embarrassed but just awkwardly laugh it off or something (if they were a friend i’d be more chill, if was my mom i wouldn't ...... 1 reply
1) I would be really embarrassed if someone could see my underwear so yeah, it bothers me.
2) I’d like to be notified to avoid any further embarrassment. However, that should be done in a way that isn’t obvious to others. 1 reply
Age 21 ~To your first question it depends on the situation, who is seeing and where are they seeing it. Generally I don't like strangers or relatives seeing my delicates.
Scenario #1: Messy Room. Clouthes and clean undergarments are everywhere. If a close friend of mine regardless of sex/gender walks in, I wouldn't care.
Scenario #2: Unwarranted...... reply
As a woman, I don't feel comfortable with anyone seeing my underwear (if I'm wearing it). But I am ok with a woman seeing my underwear on the clothes line or in the laundry basket to be folded. However, I feel uncomfortable if a man sees it, even if my teenage male cousin comes for a visit and sees my laundry basket.
My bras, on the other hand, I...... reply
