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I'm sorry what do I do...I don't understand
so i'm a huge bl fan, i read yaoi mangas and i freaking love them but for some reason seeing homosexuals in reality just makes me feel homophobic....i wonder why like, the bl animations, manhwas I like the very much i squeal, or run or kick my pillow whenever there's a cute scene. But If saw something like that in rl i dont have the same feeling...Is something wrong with me(I think so)I'm not hating its just not the same feeling. I'm so concerned about myself...
Idealized attractive gay couples written by women for the female audience ≠ real life gay people. Separate your opinions.
This is giving the same vibe of people hating the actors for playing villains in movies. reply
it ok to feel that way, don't listen to hateful comments. reality and fictions are two different things. i also don't feel anything when i see couples in real life. some extra lovey dovey couple even make me cringe, when they do stuff in public. like bro do it in private. its also normal to feel that way toward lgbtq. 1 reply
it could just be coz you're young so you're highly idealistic and naive, but you need to look at the situation clearly first to see where it went wrong. Is it really homosexuals or the actions in BLs happening live in front of you that's making you feel off?
Say, a person who looks and acts gay sits beside you, just scrolling through their phone,...... reply
this is straight up the most idiotic thing i've ever seen in this fucking site. let me unpack.
so u like watching two fictional boys kiss, cry, and call each other 'mine' while u giggle and kick your pillow... but the moment you see two real guys holding hands or maybe existing too close to each other, your inner karen starts sweating? yeah. there�...... reply
gay people are gay people, raw and realistic, BL is a fantasy, just remember to understand what about actual gay people make your uncomfortable.. and try not to compare them to drawings, because they aren’t a fantasy for your sake but people living their lives, loving who they love reply
hey u sound like you need a lot of therapy is that accessible? you need to separate reality and fiction and stop treating gay people like they're some whimsical sex commodity made for your fetishisation cuz it's not cute !!! reply
I thought it be fetishization if u saw the yaoi as rl gay men and read it because of that while being a straight woman but saying you are not homophobic because you read yaoi-- after asking gay strangers if they are ukes and leaving sexual comments about sex-- or that they look like a guy who gets raped in a book and gangbanged by 11340 aliens...... 2 reply
