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OK, so I just recently found out that my boyfriend is submissive
so last night my boyfriend told me that he was actually submissive and didn’t actually like being in control and don’t get me wrong. I’m actually very happy about that like that’s literally my type so I have no problem with that and being the dominant one in our relationship, but I was wondering if I should switch up our relationship dynamic a little bit like before he told me this I wouldn’t say he was necessarily in control of me, but I still did give him some control over what I did cause I thought that was what he would like and I felt comfortable and trusted him enough to do that knowing he wouldn’t abuse that power but he actually told me that made him really nervous and confused what to do so I was wondering should I act like more of the boyfriend in this relationship like if that makes sense? I know this might sound really stupid and I might seem like an idiot making this post but where each other‘s first partners and I want to make him feel comfortable. So I wanna make sure I do this right because in my culture it’s normal for the guy to be in control and women to be submissive to the man so I don’t really know what to do right now like I have an idea, but I just wanna make sure that I do it right and make him feel good
I think this is something the both of you have to talk about, things like boundaries, likes, and dislikes. It’s great that this dynamic works in both your interests but this is something you need to ask him, because maybe he likes being submissive in certain aspects and doesn’t like giving full control in some other aspects, you never know unle...... reply
That's something we cant tell you. Ik my friends ex boyfriends bsf likes being called princess, and like being handled. Like pretty sure hed even do pegging. But there's boundaries your boyfriend may have reply
