Some of y'all treat top and bottom as a gender binary

Am i making sense? Y'all treat bottoms as if they were women, a man could be slightly emphatic and caring towards a child and suddenly he's a mom and/or malewife? Like damn let's reinforce the stereotype that only women can be good with children because of "maternal" instinct or whatever in the name of destroying gender roles y'all are upholding them stronger than ever.

(Yes i know bottoms in BLS are basically meant to be seen as "women" because they're made by women for women or whatever) guys please don't start arguments, it's chill not that deep, just something to consider idk