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Why are some ppl lowkey obsessed with red flag semes ngl
I'm concerned at some of my friends tbh, they said they wanted a man like Jaekyung and wants to be abused and I'm the only one who didn't agree?? Like are you okay-- they started to list more LITERAL rapist MLs that they want as their bf-- no they didn't have trauma or anything that could explain why they behave like this (as far as I know, they were never in a relationship) but just why would you want your man to treat you like shit??
I keep thinking and came up with a conclusion that some of them just think most of these bl relationships are just "rough and sexy" bec tbh in media, sex is usually portrayed as something aggresive = to you feeling apparently more good. Like idk ppl are just horny and think a sex-driven relationship is a "strong relationship".
This is one of the many consequences of glorifying rape and abuse in fiction, and also why it's important to always call out a media that does this. 1 reply
Tell your friends to grow up lmao Literally how is it not common sense to not let media infouence you or is the new generation so susceptible with that because they grow their morals on the internet?? (would explain mob mentality and culture tbh)
I like red flag ml and even problematic shit but my husband irl is a geek softie. In fact when I dated...... 1 reply
Rape kinks and the like exist. Gotta keep that in mind first and foremost with people who say they want something that's strange or not normal.
But yeah, in general it's really just boiling down to the art being good tho. That's why we have such a pandemic smut bullshit flood going for months now: Pretty art, but shittiest of plots.
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Red flag mls like horse face jaekyung are ugly and unbearable but give me yandere clingy mls that have a panic attack when they're not near their lover, stalkerish, eventually kills their lover (I'm a masochist I love tragedies) and I'll be hooked instantly . Irl i hate when people invade my personal space and possesive guys are an instant turn off...... reply
Edit: sorry guys. I do think rape is the worst thing possible but these people fucking romanticize it and sexualize it, and it doesn’t matter what people tell them or how much people say “no you don’t want this!” They never understand. It’s just… how else are these types of people gonna learn just how bad rape and abuse is unless they e...... 7 reply
I'm all for black flag and red flag character in stories but I'm not that unhinged to wish for that in real life. Like comeonn... If someone is wishing that irl either they're too immature or that delusional enough to not know the difference between story and real-life. 1 reply
There's a huge difference between fiction and reality.
In fiction you just see the drama, fun, romantic and sexy scenes. You can admire the characters and put the manga away any time you want.
Red flags in fiction can be really thrilling.
I think it's alright to enjoy rape, abuse and other red flags in fiction, as long as you know it's bad in reali...... 2 reply
it's because some people dont know what true love really is. they mistake horniness and pleasure as love even if it isn't consensual. there's this crazy fantasy alot of readers have about wanting to fix red flags yk like "i can fix him!!". others also believe that having past trauma somehow cancels out all the horrible things the seme has done to t...... reply
Pretty privilege they could be the worst semes on earth and people will continue to act like it’s fine or make excuses because it supposedly goes with the story line but why did rape have to be added into it?? But it always gets ignored because of pretty privilege reply
