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I'm a 23-year-old woman and I've never been in a relationship.
One thing that really stresses me out is sex, because I’ve never had it. I do want to experience it, but I’m scared I’ll do something wrong or just not know what I’m doing. I’ve read a lot (including manhwas and other sources), so I get the general idea of what’s supposed to happen — but since I’ve never had any real-life experience, I feel like I don’t have the practical ability or confidence to actually go through with it. Has anyone else felt this way? How did you deal with it?
We live in a culture where being in a relationship is the most important things but you don't NEED one, if you want one you need to actually go out and flirt or get a dating app, the only way to get over the anxiety of sex is to have it with someone you trust and it's okay if you can't go the whole way through the first few times, remember sex is a...... 1 reply
Please do NOT use manhwas as a reference for things like this, main reason being why is this research I did. Manhwas are not realistic enough to show you what a relationship is like also cus me personally who also did this... It takes actual research to know what u should do during sex. Not watching porn, but by listening to other's stories.
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To be honest there are many ways to go about this. First of all, NEEEVEERRR get your idea of sex from media. They never treat sex as delicate as it is. It sounds like you rlly stress about this sort of thing so when or if you have a partner just talk to them. That's my number 1 advice for borderline everything. Be vulnerable and tell them about how...... 2 reply
girl- don't use porn as a reference for sex it makes you underwhelmed when you have the real thing and you'll feel pressured to say you like shit you don't like and think somethings wrong with you also being in a relationship isn't all about sex it's a lot more nuanced than that so if it's causing you to hesitate stop thinking like that sex and rel...... 1 reply
