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am i a bad friend?
my friends are extroverts and they like outdoorsy activities like just hanging out and going out and i’m an introvert and a homebody person and since its vacation its my comfort staying in the house and not leaving, i go out with them sometimes too but other times i really need to stay home cause i don’t have the energy and mental capacity to go out. i feel guilty rejecting them but if i don't prioritize myself too i’m gonna be a lil down. plus i cant force myself since if its decided on my mind then i really don’t want to
its not like i don’t wanna be w them but it’s tiring to socialize sometimes
I get exactly what you mean, we all need some "me time". It's good that you do at least sometimes hang out with them rather than none at all. You're not a terrible friend, if you were they wouldn't be so eager to hang out with you :D. Have a fun vacation! reply
You're not a bad friend! It's totally understandable because I'm also an introvert with extroverted friends who likes frequent hangouts, and getaway trips, and sadly my social battery can't keep up lmao. I just communicate it with them, and being honest so that there wouldn't be any misunderstandings and no feelings would be hurt. reply
Why would you be a bad friend. It’s just difference in values is all. You’ll be fine. If You don’t wanna go out, you don’t wanna go out. There’s not much to say about that… just don’t regret in the future, I say go out while you can and appreciate all you can do. Ultimately it’s your choice and everyone should respect that even if t...... reply
ofc not ! it’s very important to prioritise and take care of yourself plus knowing your own boundaries! and your friends should be understanding of this too. quality over quantity :) reply
I'm an introvert too. I don’t even go out with my own family. But with my friends, I always try to make time, even when I’m tired or busy. Hanging out with them actually gives me more energy and makes me feel better. Yk the saying, "it's not the place, it's the people" it has always been true for me. But I understand not everyone is like that a...... reply
