If you were to tell your past self one thing, what is it?

Lowkey a vent honestly I think I'll tell mine to be careful and be honest with his feelings, the lack of communication in my part with my relationship had slowly torn me apart cause I'm not "fine" with the way they were acting, on how they kept ignoring the feelings I had for them and the amounts of times my buttons was pushed and I had to always excuse it just so they could be forgiven because I knew deep down they don't want to hurt anyone. Not on purpose. Now kinda everything's too late for it.

Grief doesn't really fade, it doesn't get smaller or bigger it just stays there but you can grow strong enough to handle it and move on.