Spotting mggoers in the wild IRL is wild

Now idc if u use this site but it often makes me nervous when I see someone use it and wonder "oh i wonder if they go to forums and know me" and like today, it was one of my moots. Won't say who, I told them to not reveal themselves lmao and they had heard abt my bf passing. Kinda suprised that news spread all over town and that's what they know they had a hunch so that's why they followed me and saw some stuff I say matches events happening in the city