how is it being in a relationship and reading yaoi or yuri etc

guys idk I was js thinking abt this guy ik and then I was like "bro what would It be like to date him and have this hobby at the same time" so I wanted to come on here and ask the people who do have a man or women or certain someone and ask what its like to be in a relationship with them while simultaneously enjoying reading yoai and yuri or wtv freaky shit some of ya'll like!

I have a feeling that its probably like normal and nothing is different or special, but I also feel like some of ya'll are dating someone who also shares the same enjoyment in reading abt men/women smooching and even read it tgr. I also feel like some of you guys are married. idk why I js do...

anyways this is really weird but god forbid curiosity lmao

ok bye....(︶︿︶)