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What should I do?
So I'm a 16 year old from the U.S. and I made a tiny public art discord server a few days ago. A 23 year old Lebanese guy joined and friended me and keeps asking for my name irl and for me to speak in the voice chat. What should I do? Am I just overreacting? He seems really pissed by the fact that I use a male name for my discord tag and he doesn't want to use it since I told him I'm female (I'm actually transmasc, but it shouldn't matter anyway).
Play it safe hun. Go with your gut, if it feels off or creepy talk to an admin on your server. If they do not do anything then just leave the server. I was 16 many moons ago and there are a lot of creeps out there!
I am a 30yo mom of 2 from Indiana. Please play it safe and ALWAYS go with your gut IRL and online. 1 reply
no u arent overreacting. if u dont like something or feel uncomfortable or hell just because u like things a certain way as long as its not hurting someone u are free to do just that. also the community is full of ppl who prey on young ppl trying to manipulate them even guilt them into doing things. so no hon, u do u.
also the fact that he got pi...... reply
And he keeps saying we're friends even though I barely know this guy. And tbh I don't want to be friends with someone so much older than me who may have ulterior motives. But again, this is basically my first time reaching out to people on discord so I'd like some advice. 1 reply