Is it just me or are a lot of semes in manwhas…just not all that in bed…

Like tell me, honestly, would you be happy in bed w most of them? A man whose dick is built like a 12+ inch pole. A man who doesn’t listen to you when you want them to slow down/stop/take a break. A man who lowkey forces you into sleeping w them, and can never trust them if ur drunk. A man who doesn’t stop when you tell them it hurts. Do I need to list anything else to make my point? I feel like I need to kidnap these men and teach them how to actually PLEASURE their lover