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Problems (just venting idk where else to go)
Me and my family migrated to another country for the sake of a better future but how come that the moment we got here we fell apart lmfao I'm so tired of hearing arguments my dad would also threatened to hit me and my mother thankfully he hasn't done it yet but i am scared when he blows up. Back when we were on our country we used to be happy (?) Even when we were struggling. Now I feel even more distanced with them. Before one of my parents got here they had a accident that to the point they had to be operated, the thing is I didn't feel a single thing. Am I a bad person? I feel so tired lmao I don't even know what to do with my life, no dreams no talents, no job and no aspirations. Every time they mentioned what I'm gonna be doing in the future I'm just reminded that I'm useless.
Chat give me some advice make it as honest as possible I can take it
You are not a bad person. I’ve dealt with a dad like that and I’ve learnt to mute everything he says. Focus on what makes you happy even if it’s something stupid, trust me. Even if you have no dreams or talents, there’s nothing wrong with that. Do WHATEVER makes you feel good about something. I’m not going to tell you to find a hobby beca...... reply
I might be wrong, but it sounds like there were and are underlying issues that simply came up to the surface after a big problem was mostly solved.
I think what you are right now, is in pain. Migrating is hard. Family issues are hard. The future is unknown and you might feel directionless.
None of those things make you useless or a bad person. Th...... reply
babe you're suffering from heavy burnout and possibly mild depression. first of all, i'm not gonna give you fake promises that everything is gonna be ok, bc the situation is not but there's only one thing i need you to be- to stay strong. i've been living w toxic parents all my life and i can relate to being numb towards them, i too neither love t...... reply
