How do others feel about this?

I know that If you've read yaoi for a long time and have been involved in these types of communities that you've encountered people who disagree with your interests and claim that this genre is a blatant fetishization of gay people. I've had my fair share of haters whether it be on Instagram or Twitter and as a Fujoshi I defend myself. I don't go around at real life homosexuals and determining if they're a top or who they should be "shipped" with...that's stupid. Even I, a loser, don't have the time for that. I simply enjoy the genre as... a genre. Yes, I think it's hot otherwise I wouldn't have read thousands of smutty manhwa/manga (I also feel like people are hypocrites because men can enjoy girl on girl action and hentai but us girls can't get some man on man? Y'all be tripping...oh and that goes for fudanshi's as well, y'all are cool). However, I am a person who has boundaries and human decency. So. How do you other Fujoshi's feel about that? Do you disagree or can see their point of view? Please don't trash talk anyone though, that isn't epic because everyone can have opinions.
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