Sorry, guys! During system maintenance, some functions like comment are unavailable.
gay man fetish, is it true?
I get that there are def women out there that do partake in a gay man fetish that definitely invalidate gay men with their yaoi and shit but does that mean every yaoi reader (yes i mean you) is a gay man fetishizer? Because I know and see so many men read and consume yaoi like its nothing and we're all chilling. Like for my personal experience, im queer and i only read yaoi because i like the stories/art styles and men on the more submissive side (istg ive read all the femdom out there and majority of them are so trash and SA shit) and aren't really attracted to gay men as a concept? like the thought is really bizarre to me and i think this is the same reason for many other women. I dont really get this gender wars thingy that happening especially online between gay men and straight women when in real life people are so chill about it. Like i get that there is bara and yaoi, but lets be honest we're both reading that shit. I dont know, let me know your thoughts
btw, as someone who has been wlw, if you askd me what i thought about straight men fetishizing lesbians and making porn comics out of it, i would ask where those porn comics are IF YK RIGGHH but honestly, this doesnt mean i condone fetishing a group of individuals youre not apart of, its just it gives me mixed feelings. i dont know i need to sleep lmk your thoughts
Let people fetishes whatever they want lol.. they arent harming rl people by just reading gay anime men raping eachother. Poop/pee fetisher (for example), youre weird but whatever..you do you. You shouldnt need to concern what other masturbate with lol ╮(￣▽￣)╭ 4 reply
Porn fetishizes sex in general and everyone in it. Gay, straight, bi. Porn doesn't discriminate. So everyone and anyone in this website reading stories that contain sexually explicit material is in fact fetishizing sex and a group of people. Sadly, people just want an excuse to hate on straight women these days.
Frankly, as an older woman, I'm s...... 2 reply
People who dumb down an entire queer genre to just fetishizing are just weird, period. Literally most of the yaoi fans I see on twitter are scissoring lesbians who are constantly being invalidated for liking and reading yaoi. People don't realize there is a healthy balance between fair and valid criticism vs blind hate that leads to even marginaliz...... 1 reply
I think a main issue is that people don’t really know what a fetish actually is and what it actually means to fetishize groups of real people.
I’ve seen so many people throw out the “Fetishizer!” accusation like it’s a be all end all way to shut others down.
But there is a difference between being attracted to someone/something and fet...... 1 reply
Some people definitely do too much, but I think the only thing that would throw me off is if they support one sexuality but bash another, then it really gives fetish. But I will say alot of these manga with SA gives objectification to me and i wish ppl weren't so comfortable adding it into stories cause fictional or not its a negative thing. reply
A lot of it is fetishization. Is a long conversation and many people want to go around the mulberry bush about it. But you have to realize the comments and posts tell on themselves. You say you're not fetishizing it right? Then what about when I see comments saying "that shit got me wet", "That shit was so hot" And it had tons of likes. Or post tha...... reply
