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a friend allegedly cheated
is this a deal breaker for a friendship? i honestly had no idea this was happening and i only heard rumors about it but im also not close enough to randomly bring it up to her. im kind of conflicted on what to do. should i just let it slide since its her private life?
this is gonna sound crazy but coming from someone whose been on all sides of the cheating triangle possible like its not that deep, that being said if this is someone cheating on their husband who theyve been married too and have kids w then its lowk crazy compared too a teen or early 20s relationship ( im assuming) then dont let that change how u ...... 1 reply
Bro my ex went around spreading rumors that I cheated on her and it genuinely ruined a few peoples’ personal opinion of me. Rumors are famously exaggerated. If you can’t go up to her and ask her directly about it then it’s not really worth your time to worry about it 2 reply
I treat my friends how I would like to be treated if the situation was reversed.
And anything I would tell you depends on if you WANT to build a friendship with her.
Whether the rumor is true or not is kinda irrelevant. If it’s true she’s struggling. If it’s not she’s struggling in a different way.
I do gotta say it’s kinda a bad si...... 1 reply
theres not much you can do, plus since its a rumour you should be careful about actually beliving it. always take rumours with a gain of salt.
if it does end up being true though i think the most you can do is just be honest, tell her to be honest and not defend what she did, without being an asshole though, if she does come to you for advice or an...... 2 reply
idk, i know a friend that cheated. She told me that she cheated on someone. But i dropped her becoz of the baseless rumor she said abt me. So ur choice. If ur not close, ur not friends then. reply
Don't bother texting her since you're not that close with her, you're giving her unsolicitated advice and it'll seem rude but i do recommend reaching out to the victim and offer your support, they'll apprieciate knowing someone is there for them too. 1 reply