Old ass Lady here
Relationships are a give-and-take, mutually, not just one side giving and the other taking.
Don't be with someone who refuses to listen to your boundaries, it'll make you miserable.
Just because you have money saved up doesn't mean you're obligated to give it to others. It's your money, just because people can't save up their...... 1 reply
1) tell people you love them and tell them why
2) fear of vulnerability will steal years from your life. You are going to fuck up. Constantly. That’s okay.
3) people come and go from your life. That will hurt but try not to make one person your everything. People tend to romanticize that in relationships. Every relationship (even platonic) should...... reply
Rather than trying to mimic people to fit in, I wish I’d just focused on being more at peace. With myself, with others… yeah, there’s a lot of things in my life that I’d love to change, but as time goes on I realize that those external things being fixed wouldn’t suddenly make me happy. Rather than trying to become the person who parties ...... 1 reply