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feeling ugly
did anyone else have a period of time where you felt really ugly? like sooo ugly to the point where u didnt even want to go to school
i think my hate for my face ended when i stopped hanging out with my pretty friends from school and went over to the weird and unpopular kids. they helped me feel more confident and i would always look good next to them. one of the weird kids boyfriend even asked me out one time LOLLLL
im so grateful for them genuinely but i didnt even realise they could get a boyfriend LOL
i genuinely cannot fathom being so ugly inside and out that i put people i claim are my friends down. i feel so bad for your supposed friends, i hope they realize how fucking toxic you are and run for the hills. That level of self hatred ain’t their job to fix, so go to therapy and stop whining about it and how much better they make you feel. it ...... reply
As someone who thought they were ugly in middle school & most of high school, I have never once thought to stoop so low as to make friends with people specifically to boost my own ego. This better be rage bait. That’s disgusting behavior. You shouldn’t make friends with people based on what they look like. You are LITERALLY indirectly calling ...... 1 reply
the question is when have I ever NOT felt ugly
jk in all seriousness. I’m pretty sure I don’t have body dysmorphia, and its just a logical conclusion that I’m not very attractive aesthetically. Theres just something repulsive about my face and body that I’m certain of???
hard to put it into words but its like looking at a slob of meat n...... 4 reply
I'm gonna ignore that last part but anyway I have really gorgeous friends LIKE model worthy friends. I've struggled with my self esteem for so long bc of this.
but they're the kind of friends who will hype you up and glaze tf out of you so at some point I stopped looking at myself in the mirror through a foggy lens and started to see me for my be...... 2 reply
hey bae dont listen to these haters! its normal to want to be around people who make you look and feel better! i used to be part of a conventionally attractive friend group for all of highschool and on the last week of my senior year i switched groups and now me and my bestie are the 2 attractive ones in it! i empathize w cuz my friend has been get...... 2 reply
REAL. (Although hanging out with "weird and unpopular" kids to feel more confident is kind of shitty to do)
I tried everything. Style change, makeup, body and skincare routine, working out, christ I even had an eating disorder for like half a year. None of it worked.
Whenever I'm out with others I feel like an alien. I don't feel like we're the sa...... reply