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am i just being a sensitive bitch
So me and my friends went out for a massage, and afterward we tried to decide where to eat. We couldn’t pick anything, so we just went around checking different places. Eventually, we agreed on this taco spot. I thought that was the final decision, so I said okay.
Then out of nowhere, they started talking about eating at a samgy place instead. One of my friends said if I was going to pick tacos, then she’d pick samgy, and another friend suddenly joined her last minute. So I was like, “I’ll just go home first if that’s what you want" because girl, do you really want me just sitting there while you eat samgy? And then they literally left me there at the taco place.
i also wanted to eat samgy, but like we already decided to eat tacos and i already ordered
NO ABSOLUTELY NOT WHAT THE HELL
They knew that you had already ordered and still decided to eat somewhere else basically leaving you with no way out (you would have had to either eat alone, leave the food be and waste the money already paid, or bring the taco with you and watch them eat something you apparently like more) wtf. This might seem rude ...... 1 reply
No, also fuck ur friends, they changed their mind out of nowhere when you already ordered, at the very least they could’ve have brought up samgy another time when you guys hang out because you guys already made up a decision and you already ordered so it’s too late to change it now, or they just made you waste ur money bc tacos aren’t good as...... 1 reply
I would have shoved the taco in they face but I would have felt sorry for the poor taco
you’re not being too sensitive you deserve to be included and considered 1 reply
y'all thank you for the responses i was just really upset earlier but i wasn't sure if i was in fhe right place to get upset about it coz i thought i was just being petty and sensitive. thank you for the advice! i hope i get to tell them this feelings but it'll surely take time. god bless y'all 1 reply
What Went Wrong Here?
1. Broken Agreement: The group made a collective decision (tacos) and then two member unilaterally changed it without a new consensus and after you had ordered. This shows a lack of respect for the original decision and you.
2. Peer Pressure & "Picking Teams": Your friend's comment, "If you were going to pick tacos, then I’d...... 4 reply
No, I dislike indecisive people, imagine all that wasted time spent trying to pick one, starving. I would've left them since it was too of them. My stomach takes priority even over 911 emergencies. 2 reply
1. Wtf is wrong w/ your friends, even if y’all were gonna eat at different places I’d wait till you got food and then go get THEIR food then rather eat there or somewhere else together.
2. Idk what samgy is but I always gonna pick tacos over almost anything else. I’m a hoe for tacos frfr. (I hope your tacos were worth it at least :( ) 2 reply