if you were to date someone older than you, how much older would they be.

im 21 in a month, i would not date anyone younger than 19. i usually like older (or my age) but idk how id feel with someone whos like.. more than 5-6 years older than me tbh   2 reply

idk man i accidentally hooked up with a 30 year old last year when i was 19 and it was kinda peak but like actual dating probs like 3-4 years older max   1 reply

in theory 20 years but in reality probably 5   reply

Personally for me, I'd say it changes overtime. In the sense that currently im a young adult and prefer someone who is of similar maturity and status so at max 3 years although I actually prefer older people and attracted to older men usually—I understand where I stand and why it isnt healthy for me to be w someone of that age in my current situa......   reply

Last time someone tried to set me up on a blind date to a guy 13 years older than me. I said, fuck no. Didn't know he was an only child, have lots of inheritance, cars, land, houses, stabil job. I REGRET IT   1 reply

3-4 years, depending on whether we can hold a conversation.   reply

I think it depends what stage in life I am in. At y current age no more than five. but I think if your in your mid thirties, with your shit together dating even older is fine (max 10 years at that point.)   reply

I actually prefer older men but my desired age gap limit is 5-6 years, no more than that. I mean if it goes beyond 7 years of age gap it would be like a whole generational gap between us, and that is quiet a fragile variable for relationship. anyways.....I do prefer older men.   reply