whats your worse redflag?

im so boreddd and im just wondering do you have any redflags you have that youre aware of/usually people comment on and are you trying to change it? if so how hard is it for u to change it ?

for me personally im a really sensitive person and i lowkey have an anxious attachment style in people i meet ╥﹏╥ im trying to see if anyone is suffering too trying to change themselves

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whats your worse redflag? [Answer]

Mioro 23 10,2025

I've been told im insufferable bc I turn everything into an argument, usually i just assume we're just passionately discussing shit I can't read people's tone at all so to "change" it i just started to shut up lol I cant tell when I'm being too much so I just dont bring it up at all 1 reply

23 10,2025

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whats your worse redflag? [Answer]

yaoi vacuum cleaner 23 10,2025

im too serious 4 reply

23 10,2025

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silent_wisp 23 10,2025

I’m so fucking avoidant and fearful it’s crazy. I get panicked by literally anything like a barn mouse and just disappear into the aether. I have at least 20 people I’m leaving on read at all times, some of them since before 2018… The names literally just go through my mind on loop and it’s so draining but whenever I think about like…. ...... 1 reply

23 10,2025

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huhuhuhu 23 10,2025

i don’t reply to texts and ghost people i know and care about every few months for weeks or even months at a time why? i don’t know. ik id do anything for them and i actually do go out of my way to be useful for them (tasks, advice, money, anything) but then i just go silent for a verrrrrry long time serial ghoster 1 reply

23 10,2025

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Loganberry1017 23 10,2025

I can just be a dick at times. I'm just blunt and kinda tune people out, if I'm not interested in what's happening it's hard to hide it, sometimes I make a mean joke and all that. 1 reply

23 10,2025

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Somethingsomething19 23 10,2025

I'm a people pleaser, I will lie about what I like for you I warned the last person I talked to pretty early on but it's ingrained in my values and who I've been from childhood to adulthood so pretty hard to stop now reply

23 10,2025

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Megatrons chair 23 10,2025

Idk maybe being a dense mf or that meme “me, my gf and her 38 inches Megatron body pillow” reply

23 10,2025

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A_very_bored_Humanoid 23 10,2025

I oversleep through so many plans it’s not even funny. I’m also just a serial accidental ghoster because I barely look at my phone messages in general. But then I get sad when the other person is flaky or doesn’t text me. It’s all so hypocritical lmao. My gf has discovered just coming by unannounced to see if I’m awake and calling me. Wh...... reply

23 10,2025

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