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Question for asexual people
Im kinda curious to how some of you guys found out you were one, since compared to gay, bi or lesbians and etc they obv like someone. Were some of you guys thinking maybe you hadn't found your type yet? I kinda need some of yall experience for a essay.
You’re confusing asexuality with aromanticism.
Asexual people can and do have crushes, fall in love etc.
Aromantics don’t experience romantic feelings for others.
Now to answer your question:
I’d had crushes before, but I was never really interested in pursuing those crushes or even to have them reciprocated.
Actually whenever anyone even s...... 1 reply
Well asexuality is a spectrum and in my experience I just knew since those stuff never interested me. I never had sexual or romantic attraction to anyone even in my adult life. I’ve had people like me but I was always filed with dread to also like them back but I couldn’t force myself. Thinking about being in a relationship and doing couple s...... reply
I’m aroace, and I can only confidently say that I have had a crush on someone once in my life. That was in fourth grade and only lasted for about a week before I lost feelings and then just pretended to like them to feel normal.
Otherwise, I would pick a classmate and decide to have a crush on them. Compulsory heterosexuality I think. I just wa...... reply
if you find the concept of sex fun but doesn't have any desire to be involved in it, then babes you're aegosexual! i need more aegosexual pookies. asexuality spectrum is broad af. aegoromantic is the same but in love. i discovered it a year or two ago. i hate "sex thoughts" that includes me, it disgusts me lmfao. but i don't hate sex, the concept o...... reply
I never thought about it too much till I watched a Jaiden's animation video about it and then it just kinda clicked lol
I will say I think I am graysexual grayromantic
I do experience sexual and romantic attraction to varying degrees, but very infrequently (as in years upon years) and maybe not as strongly.
It actually made me understand even mor...... 1 reply
I'm aroace, and I've just never had a crush. I have never experienced those feelings when you fall for someone. I don't really understand how it works, to be honest, since I have never felt it. For the ace part, it just physically disgusts me to even think of being intimate with someone else. I can't even watch movies or TV shows with it, but it's ...... reply
I'm aro/ace and currently in my late twenties. I genuinely feel it's something you just kinda come to realize on your own at a certain point. I never had crushes growing up, nor was I ever interested in other people and that feeling just never went away.
I also need to mention that I have ADHD, and I tend to forget some people even exist if I don�...... reply
I never wanted to have sex with the people I dated, sex and love are such divorced concepts to me. I don't understand how loving someone makes you wanna fuck them.
I'm pretty sure I'm aro too, I just feel complete apathy when it comes to looking at people romantically. I can act the part and treat them lovingly but there would be zero feelings ...... 1 reply
Part of the ace spectrum here! Demisexual to be specific
Ig I learned I was different from others when I realized most people weren't joking when talking about anything inherently sexual?
I've read a lot of smut, and it doesn't do much for me, and also watching porn feels more like watching a documentary without the commentary part
Don't get me wro...... reply