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Does anyone here actually do BDSM irl?
Since everyone else has been asking overtly sexual questions recently, now’s as good a time as any ig. other nonstandard kink play that isn’t strictly BDSM counts too, like petplay or whatever. BDSM means anything with bondage&discipline, domination&submission, and sadism&masochism in case some people don’t know.
I have as a sub it was nothing too extreme, though. Choking, spanking, bondage, toys, ect. Some of the sex was fun, but some wasn't. There was a lot my ex wouldn't do correctly. He wouldn't let me have a safe word because thats "dumb", would cross boundaries like dry anal. No aftercare either. Be with someone who's better than than if your going t...... 1 reply
