I’ve only ever heard of two people who were into cnc or noncon who actually thought sexual assault is okay. Both of those people were obviously severely mentally compromised in other ways.
Hearing about irl victims or reading a story that has realistic sexual assault makes me feel sick and sad. Fictional and real events are VERY separate in my m...... 1 reply
It could be that you don’t have anything in your stomach to throw up. Also sometimes eating and drinking something helps when I feel sick, anyway. It could also be that you just don’t have a strong gag reflex, in which case, I don’t know how to help you, I’m sorry :( 1 reply
It helps to make your shoulders wide and your legs as long as possible. Ideally, you should need to stoop and go sideways through doors. Betas and Alphas who aren’t naturally gifted in these areas should invest in padded shirts and hidden platform boots.
Don’t bother working on your personality or anything, if you’re going for a Main Characte...... reply
This is so real whenever I meet someone irl with certain niche interests I also have (very very rare!) i immediately clock it as a red flag.
Like ik there’s GOTTA be something deeply wrong with you brother, ik what you are. reply
Ik this isn’t what u wanna hear but your best bet is gonna be to get an accountability partner. Im too much of a puss to go thru with it but the only people I’ve heard of who managed to turn porn addiction around were the ones who did that.
Tell an irl friend you’re trying to stop consuming porn and find an app or plugin or something that pi...... 1 reply
I’m the newest in a friend group and a few days ago a girl took me aside while we were doing dishes and asked me if I have a crush on this one guy. I lowkey was so nonchalant and didnt even flinch I dont know how, but I just said he seems nice but I don’t know him well enough to see any of his red flags yet. She said "heh… u aren’t gonna find any, ive known him since I was born and we grew up together. He doesnt have any red flags." (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
THATS EVEN WORSE, that means if i WERE to date him ID be the problem and thats embarrassing And she said "a while back" when neither of us were there, 5/8 people in the friend group were having a discussion and came to the conclusion that the guy definitely acts differently around me than other people, but it’s hard to tell bc he’s the kind of person that’s nice and helpful to everyone
WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO ABOUT THAT SISTER, IM SO ASS I PROMISE HE CAN DO BETTER
Anyway i realized in hindsight that everyone else must’ve been seeing the signs except me since the very start judging by the weird questions theyd been asking me that i had thought were just random it’s been 3 days but the potential implications are only just setting in, I’ve never had to seriously consider whether or not I would date a guy before I’m wiggig out Help
Since everyone else has been asking overtly sexual questions recently, now’s as good a time as any ig. other nonstandard kink play that isn’t strictly BDSM counts too, like petplay or whatever. BDSM means anything with bondage&discipline, domination&submission, and sadism&masochism in case some people don’t know.
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