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Which is right?
Genuinely asking because some of my friends think my answer is wrong. Is it better to give one man 20 chances or give 20 men one chance? My answer was give 20 men one chance because I’m not wasting my time on one man who prob isn’t interested in me. Also give me some of ur guy’s advice on dating lol
Depends on what giving a chance means. If its a small mistake or if your partner improves and actively tries to change for small mistakes, that's fine. If they cheat, hit you, or push your clearly established boundaries, give them only one chance.
The bottom line is, you cannot expect a different result by repeating the same actions. Don't let th...... reply
20 men one chance.
To me I define a "chance" as he done fucked up or I've gotten sick of his shit to the point that I want to leave him, I give him a "chance" to rectify things. 20 times is asinine imo. I've been married for almost 10 years and my man has had 3 "chances". I can't imagine how one could accumulate 20, that would be a bunch of red fl...... reply
20 men. This is good because granted you have discernment and are able to work with people's flaws then I guess it'd be better to have more options to pick from. reply
Bro ok so most people agree with me that 20 men one chance is better. My friends said that my answer means I’m not loyal and that I’m a player but I really don’t think so. It just shows that I’m not willing to waste my time on useless people. reply
one man 20 chances... at least i get the familiarity over time instead of having to get to know and get comfortable with a new person each time an issue comes up reply
