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I'm not sure of my Sexuality
So I've realized until now that as a boy, I've been attracted to strong-willed, tomboyish girls and I only view other girls without those characteristics as friends. Later I found out that one of the girls I've been attracted to had gotten themselves a girlfriend. I've been thinking if I'm really attracted to girls or just using these characteristics as an excuse and actually attracted to boys. Because one time I found my male classmate attractive that I just want to get close to him but his personality turned me off. I am a also a little effeminate so I do get along with girls and I can be a gentleman and show courtesy to girls as well, but what I also want is to be shown courtesy like to other girls, I wanted to be the one protected and cared for (a treatment which mostly only girls get). So I wonder: What exactly is my sexuality?
well most importantly, you are you. you can like whoever you want without having a restriction of your sexuality but its good to know. i think your straight for the most part, you have things you like in girls, like the tomboy style. i think we all have that time where we get confused because we get feelings for people we usually don't, but if you...... 1 reply
Hmm I don't think this could be used as indication that you like boys (it still could be tho). For example, i prefer submissive guys, i am bisexual, i like girls too, my preference on being the dominant one in the relationship has nothing to do with my sexuality. It's just your personality, it doesn't mean that you necessarily like boys, you could ...... reply
No one can answer this question definitively for you since you are the one who handles and feels all the minute emotions regarding this sensitive topic. I'd say the confusion is a good step towards figuring yourself out. I'm going through somewhat similar emotions but I'm just giving myself time and experience. I've definitely considered "exploring...... reply
Dont worry about it dude, there is no need to label yourself, just vibe and explore your interests and if a label sticks that's cool.
Other people probably have better advice but I think life is too short not to vibe :)) reply
It looks like you are interested in someone's personality rather then the gender, if I'm not wrong you are "pansexual". Pansexuality refers to those who fall in love with peoples personalities. reply
Bc i read smutty bl all the time i feel like i wanna fuck boys as a girl, like putting dildo inside of them and all the other perverted things, so what am i? reply
