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Am i still a victim?
I was 14 and my s/o was 19, it's just 5 years so it wasn't bad for me and I was the one to pursue them most of times. Our relationship was going well till things became sexual and he insisted it was okay for me to do it cause we've been together for 5 months and it was "normal" for ppl who are lovers. At first I didn't want to but later on, I accepted and I actually felt good for all those nights but then he got more and more demanding. I felt bad that if I didn't do it , it meant I don't love him. I was disgusted of myself for a long time till then he broke up with me. I felt like I was only used for my body. I was the first one to pursue them, I did the first move and all but I feel disgusted. It wasn't like he agreed immediately, we were in a situation ship till I was 15.
Yes?? I'm sorry that happened to you but you are. Even if you were the one to pursue, a simple rejection on his part would've worked. Any actually sane ppl above 18 wouldn't be with someone who's 16 below. 16 is already on thin ice for them. He literally COERCED you to having sex too. That's a rapist. A pedophile and an abuser. You are a victim. reply
I am 21 years old and i look quite young for my age and have been approached by teens before, not once did i even acknowledge them
If he was a good guy, after knowing your age he would have backed off immediately
I am 21 i wouldn’t even be “friends” or flirt friendly with a 14 y/o
You are a victim and im glad you are out of that situation no...... reply
Yes, I was in a similar situation as u. I was around the same age as u when i got assaulted and now im the same age as ur s/o, and i can’t fathom ever being with someone that much younger and inexperienced. Think of it this way, why in the world would a GROWN ASS ADULT want to be messing around w someone who can’t even legally drive or vote ye...... reply
Yes, you are still the victim. He should've known better. You were still a child when you were making advanced on them. Them as the adult should've stopped that. Imagine you as a 14 year old, would you enable that behavior if a 9 year old did that to you? No. They are really disgusting. reply
I hope you get the help you need cause that was just awful...
I'd say you were groomed, it's very normalized nowadays by young children like you, which is very dangerous, not disgusting, but dangerous. You don't know what adults think since you're a minor. Mind you, children and teenagers like you are easily manipulated. So don't say you only hav...... reply
