Is he right? Do y'all think husbands need to be taken care of like a damn baby by the wife because wife isn't paying the rent? Why am i seeing incels ls on this site ? I thought the majority were women
The keyword here should be respect. Nobody has the right to decide alone, for you, what you have to do at home. It is something you talk about with your partner, taking into account both of your current needs and struggles. My partner (a boy) has been remote working every week day from 9am to 6pm this past year, while i was either going to university or doing internships. Despite him working the whole day, he was still at home, and i was the one travelling in and out. So when i came back, i was tired and mentally drained, just as much as him and maybe sometimes more. Although he was the one bringing most of the money home, it was never the variable that would decide how we organize ourselves. It was fatigue. Needs. And a just share of chores. While i would cook, he would take care of the laundry. Or while i would take a shower after a long day out, he would cook something, albeit not always very healthy, he would try. In that case, I would clean the plates after dinner.
Whether you're a boy or a girl doesn't even actually matter. We all are human and we all have basic needs and we all are prone to fatigue. In a couple especially, we need to help each other out. Money isn't a variable. Gender isn't a variable.
And everyone should know how to care for themselves and for the others.
i have empathy for working partners who have full time jobs. i do think a lot of working parents (dads in this case) are kinda forced into working a lot of hours, so by the time they come home theyre kinda exhausted to do anything. but i feel like people use that as an excuse to being negligent of child duties or asume that since the wife stays at home all day her work around the house isnt that bad or stressful and thats the thing that pisses me off.
you can be a full time worker and still TRY to be there for your kids and be there emotionally for your wife the same way a lot (sure mabye not all) of wives make an effort to do for their husbands and kids. plus it also comes down to communication at the end of the day for what each partner is comfortable doing, not expectation that husbands and wives have to this or that.
Messages
Is he right, you ask? Well, I just replied to his comment. Hope that helps clear up the obvious answer
Thankyou i loved your reply
#proudmisandrist
The keyword here should be respect.
Nobody has the right to decide alone, for you, what you have to do at home. It is something you talk about with your partner, taking into account both of your current needs and struggles.
My partner (a boy) has been remote working every week day from 9am to 6pm this past year, while i was either going to university or doing internships.
Despite him working the whole day, he was still at home, and i was the one travelling in and out. So when i came back, i was tired and mentally drained, just as much as him and maybe sometimes more. Although he was the one bringing most of the money home, it was never the variable that would decide how we organize ourselves.
It was fatigue. Needs. And a just share of chores.
While i would cook, he would take care of the laundry. Or while i would take a shower after a long day out, he would cook something, albeit not always very healthy, he would try. In that case, I would clean the plates after dinner.
Whether you're a boy or a girl doesn't even actually matter. We all are human and we all have basic needs and we all are prone to fatigue. In a couple especially, we need to help each other out. Money isn't a variable. Gender isn't a variable.
And everyone should know how to care for themselves and for the others.
i have empathy for working partners who have full time jobs. i do think a lot of working parents (dads in this case) are kinda forced into working a lot of hours, so by the time they come home theyre kinda exhausted to do anything. but i feel like people use that as an excuse to being negligent of child duties or asume that since the wife stays at home all day her work around the house isnt that bad or stressful and thats the thing that pisses me off.
you can be a full time worker and still TRY to be there for your kids and be there emotionally for your wife the same way a lot (sure mabye not all) of wives make an effort to do for their husbands and kids. plus it also comes down to communication at the end of the day for what each partner is comfortable doing, not expectation that husbands and wives have to this or that.
Why i’m a on the middle?
Because you replied to them (￣∇￣")
I meant the fight
Maybe they didn't mean to write it there and I realized that when I wrote back i’m dumb
Cuz they said this as a reply to your question
Sorry i’m really dumb
I should jump because embarrassment
Yes i am sure he meant to reply to my original post and replied to your comment instead either way he's loud and wrong
Yeah agree
Don't ignore i need to know if i am right or wrong to prepare myself