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Do some of y’all feel behind in life why or why not
Ik I have an entire lifetime ahead of me and I know life isn’t a straight path we’re all at our own pace blah blah blah but man I can’t help but feel like I’m falling behind in life somewhat can people relate? Friends around me have graduated college already, some have full time jobs, others have partners and fiancés and some of my friends have babies and whole families to take care of
Girl I read porn comics for fun and cry on the internet everyday about my unemployment lmao I’m not even independent anymore which is the one thing I had going for me As I do want these things in the future, it’s okay if people don’t want to get married or start a family I fully support people’s decisions but these are things I want I personally want in my future but can’t help like there’s a ticking clock above me and my time is going to run out soon Will I regret this impulse post? Maybe..
oh for sure;; im unemployed no degree no skills no friends no lover living at home at 23,,, i don't even have a good excuse i just checked out since 2020;; praying i fix my shit in the next 5 years dear lord reply
My best friend got a boyfriend, moved to another country, got a good paying job there, broke up with their boyfriend, got a raise and makes bank, is now in talks with another guy and just bought their own studio apartment and is in the mids of painting it and furnishing it. All this in the spawn of the last couple of years.
Me? I fell off the curv...... reply
maybe you feel behind but isn’t it better to be a little late & make the right choice than to be too early, rush into things, & make the wrong choice? i’m certain your wishes are a lot more attainable than your anxious mind is making them out to be reply
I'm an adult and trying to make the most of life everyday. It's hard to stay positive and it's okay to cry. I'm also not where I want to be in life right now, but I'm hopeful for the future. Therapy is also good if you feel that you need it. (I also read adult comics for fun. My mother read smut novels from her preteens till a decade ago, it's norm...... reply
so i'm 40
got married in my early 20s and had kids pretty much immediately
none of that was ever in my plan. it was just sort of a happy accident and i don't regret it. but now i'm a decade behind in what my actual plan was, and i'm seeing people twenty years younger than me doing things i can't and it's not the best feeling. i know it's irrational...... reply
ya i feel behind, im 19 and getting my degree in something i dont think is even right for me and its such a competitive field. my classmates r getting internships n such and im lowk js trying not to fail my classes.... but i do believe things will get better for all of us someday !! (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧ reply
Yes.
I crashed out after two weeks in my "dream college" and taking a weird ver of a gap year (years really) and just watching everything go by. I'm having to "work on myself" so I can go back to where I left off but I feel stuck.
But honestly. Take your time. For now I am not a psych professional, but as someone who was told by a psychiatrist "D...... 1 reply