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Your most impactful friend fall out/break up
i want to hear yall experiences since im recently going through my first break up and it was a 3 year relationship.
my boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and i couldn’t bring myself to go back to just being friends so i cut it off with him for good. I felt incredibly betrayed by him but honestly i feel like this break up has taught me self worth.I hated myself almost my entire life. i used to feel like i didn’t mean anything unless someone loved me but when i cut it off with him i felt like i chose myself. Now I realize that i have to love myself and in turn i give myself a better life, i don’t need to depend on others validation and it feels so liberating yet ironic a break up made me realize that lol
Found out my friend voted trump. That was such a painful revelation. I liked her a lot but I could never bring myself to be friends with her after that. I mean, she knew first hand how it is to struggle because of that man (she's from an immigrant family) but apparently she thought his first four years were good and there was no reason not to vote ...... reply
Friend fall out? I guess might be my 2023 friendgroup on discord lol. I was like too blind to see how toxic my bf was towards them, god I regret being so angry at them for so long and being very petty. They weren't responsible for my bf's uhm thing. He was just mega toxic and they didn't want to worry 24/7 i feel like, he could never actually take ...... reply
We could've been really good friends but that's impossible as i first talked to her because i fell in love with her from afar in the first place.I acted toxic and possessive and whiney and self-hater and a victim, just EW. So she started pulling away slowly and then we kind of split apart, and i totally understand that, i would've done it too if i ...... 1 reply
I've never had a really impactful split like that, tbh. I'm very quick to leave a friendship or relationship, dumped my bestie of 14 years bc she got some boyfriend she wouldn't stop dragging around to everything all the time & I truly cannot stand that shit (women in het relationships need to learn to leave their Nigels at home because nobody else...... reply
The first time we started talking back in 2022 , i felt that instant click between us and i fell madly in love with her. We hung out together everyday in class but i was becoming this bitter obsessive bitch when i saw her getting close with my other friends , i think she felt it too and told me that she regretted being friends with me and i distanc...... reply
