Like I be gooning to some thing and then suddenly I remember my grandmas bday is soon and now I can’t finish because I’m thinking about my grandma 4 reply
i hate when power dynamics are heavily imbalanced between fem and masc characters (masc is like strong independent , fem is weak). its honestly really degrading, infantilizing towards fem characters, femmephobic/mysoginistic and generally spreads a lot of gross & harmful stereotypes and its noticeable when the author has these believes deeply inte...... reply
In my opinion most queer focused media fails from truly telling anything remotely meaningful for the demographic it’s focused on since most stories don’t bring light to systematic issues or internal struggles that real queer people experience majority of their lifes(and if they do it’s extremely brief).. Especially with East Asian media (whic...... reply
i want to hear yall experiences since im recently going through my first break up and it was a 3 year relationship.
my boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and i couldn’t bring myself to go back to just being friends so i cut it off with him for good. I felt incredibly betrayed by him but honestly i feel like this break up has taught me self worth.I hated myself almost my entire life. i used to feel like i didn’t mean anything unless someone loved me but when i cut it off with him i felt like i chose myself. Now I realize that i have to love myself and in turn i give myself a better life, i don’t need to depend on others validation and it feels so liberating yet ironic a break up made me realize that lol
I’ve asked him what position he thinks he would prefer (we r both virgins) and he says he doesn’t know and it’s up to me. Not to shame him but he is scrawny, has barely any stamina, is shorter/way lighter than me and mf has health problems. I worry that if we did ever take any further than touching and he received his body will NOT be able to handle it that being said I can’t tell if he is saving face and wants to please me instead of telling me what position he really wants. I want to please him but IDK if I should let him know that I worry about him receiving it and that if he really wants to go all the way I’ll offer my… . Tbh I’m not that into sex in the first place so I want to do what he likes but this shit is embarrassing as hell I don’t know where else to ask lmao.
When will more masculine men in BL be as common as the twinks that are everywhere. I want to see more muscle, more fat, more body hair, less femininity ! I’m tired of these twinks this is my preference
I’ll start first, when I was eight years old one of my teachers was bending down to pick up a note that was by her desk. She was right in front of me and when I caught sight of her picking up the paper I had a strange feeling in my pants. As she got up and looked at me she had a disgusted look on her face that I will never forget. She saw it, the note read “Ms Francine is a fat bitch” and next to it was the peanuts I felt were missing from my pants. I was convinced someone took the peanuts i brought to school that day and framed me for a note I didn’t write but there was no proof. I got sent to detention. And that was the guiltiest nut I ever fucking had.
Having an intense gore fetish but only if you are the one being mutilated must suck because you can only have your most satisfying nut for a moment before you die
