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Help, should I tell my bf I’m okay with bottoming
I’ve asked him what position he thinks he would prefer (we r both virgins) and he says he doesn’t know and it’s up to me. Not to shame him but he is scrawny, has barely any stamina, is shorter/way lighter than me and mf has health problems. I worry that if we did ever take any further than touching and he received his body will NOT be able to handle it that being said I can’t tell if he is saving face and wants to please me instead of telling me what position he really wants. I want to please him but IDK if I should let him know that I worry about him receiving it and that if he really wants to go all the way I’ll offer my… . Tbh I’m not that into sex in the first place so I want to do what he likes but this shit is embarrassing as hell I don’t know where else to ask lmao.
Yeah communication is totally key here so I am in agreement you should talk to your boyfriend even if it is kinda embarrassing. That's a sign of a healthy relationship.
Also if none of you guys are interested in dick butt sex you guys don't have to do it either, there are a lot of other options you can do to engage in sex without dick to butt sex....... 1 reply
I think you should tell him honestly if you're down to bottom. It may be embarrassing but it would probably just be a relief if he's feeling indecisive. And if you both really don't know what to do, just experiment a little bit and see what works for you both.
Also, get that man some proper food and exercise istg. Both sides are hard and need stami...... 1 reply
There is so many alternatives to penetrative sex. Toys, touching, bdsm or whatever. Virginity is a social construct so you can define how you lose it.Trying stuff isnt bad but forcing it or settling is. Consent should be given enthusiasticly and making a offer youre unsure of robs both of you of a beautiful shared experience. Good luck, dont rush a...... reply
