I think you should tell him honestly if you're down to bottom. It may be embarrassing but it would probably just be a relief if he's feeling indecisive. And if you both really don't know what to do, just experiment a little bit and see what works for you both.
Also, get that man some proper food and exercise istg. Both sides are hard and need stami...... 1 reply
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