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What should I do
There’s this guy I know and we’re friends, but he often talks ably his sex life, and I recently discovered he has a body count of 40+ and he's only 17. Not to mention he said he’s sleeping with a 22 year old rn and it makes me so uncomfortable. Should I just stop talking to him or like. Idk. I just really don’t want him talking about that stuff or doing any of it anymore but ik there’s no way to stop him.
You should really set clear boundaries girl. Have you told him that such talks make you uncomfy and you dont want to have those conversations? if no, then tell him, if yes then leave him. Friends should respect your boundaries no matter how close they are. reply
how about you tell him what he rightfully is. A VICTIM. that boy needs support and ima need you to do the superhero job and get him some help baby. 17 and more then 40 bodies is a SCREAM for help
But if you can't do it because it's too much no ones gonna blame you. but that boy is acting like how many people do when they have sexual trauma at a y...... 1 reply
In response to the person who blocked me, Im not calling him a slut and I have told him how thats weird for the adult to be with him but he just brushed it off and said “Im almost 18 anyways” and literally does not care he constantly talks about his sex life and his “big dick” and says stuff about how he’s uncomfortable with a woman’s b...... 1 reply
Then just stop being friends with him, you can never control somebody's lifestyle so the only thing you could do is pick and choose who you want to be in your own life, just stop being friends with him. It's that simple. reply
I would say just let him be if he literally wasn’t being preyed upon….i think maybe talk to him about not talking abt his sex life that’s a fair boundary. But honestly im more worrried abt this guy, yk being with literal adults (hopefully no even older than that…but who knows). I think that may be bigger than a high sex drive. reply
You can TRY to talk to him abt it if you're worried for him (although this will rarely work and given your situation is unlikely to help) or you can set boundaries with him and let him know you aren't comfortable with him talking abt that kinda thing w you. reply
