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Family advice
A month ago I asked here what to do if your sister just uses you like a cash cow (she’s five years older than me) I finally stopped giving her money and she completely cut me off it hurts because we used to be close but now I’m realizing we were never close I was just being used. I’m like really really down right now does anyone have any advice (also don’t worry even though she is my blood sister I consider her less than a stranger now and will NEVER Talk to her again) like I REALLY need some advice rn I feel worse than trash
Hey i know what it feels like to have to cut off a toxic family member, for me i had to do with every single one of my intermediate family members.
A good coping mechanism is to compensate for the lack of community by going out and making more friends! Find someone one who wont financially abuse you, talk to people with the same interest as you, ...... 1 reply
Be petty. Since you got your own money on solo now, go treat yourself to something nice like an in-game product/merch or whatever you need. Then go to at least one or two social medias where you haven't blocked each other yet and post what you got. Don't forget to caption it with something petty as well✪ like: "I'm glad I get to buy groceries and...... 1 reply
The only advice here is go with the flow and don't ever talk to your sister now (like even if she emotionally manipulates you because you are blood related). If you have cut her off, then you have done like 70% of the hardwork. You will feel bad and maybe get depressed, so you can either talk to some therapist (or friends) or you can practice mindf...... 1 reply
The decision you made is great and the standing point you have with her is also perfect. Focus on having whatever relationship in the future, no matter which type, be healthy. If you're feeling down watch some Chiikawa :) 2 reply
