Sorry, guys! During system maintenance, some functions like comment are unavailable.
I have a crush
It’s been years, maybe a decade, since I’ve had a crush. As an adult well into my late twenties, I’m literally a deep breath away from my thirties, and it’s honestly kind of fun.
Mind you, I’ve never dated, and every day I swing between do I even want to look for a romantic connection, or stay single? I’m Ace, so it’s not a strange place to be, but I’ve missed having a crush so much.m!!!! Now, as an adult, it’s just pure fun with none of the yearning, hyperfixation, or limerence. I don’t want it to become anything. I just love how giddy it makes me and how it reminds me of high school, when I was yearning and sooo in love. I’m such a hopeless romantic, and I haven’t felt anything romantic in forever.
I told myself while growing up that I didn’t want to date before I graduated high school because teen relationships never seem to last, and I would rather avoid the heartbreak by not getting a taste of it before I knew I was ready.
Having crushes as an adult is more stressful for me because I’m at an age where I’m actually supposed to do som...... 1 reply
