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Changed mind about not having kids?
Just wanted to see if someone has a similar disposition as mine. But has any of you ever changed your mind about not having any kids? Because yes I really enjoy spending time with kids and get baby fever and all, but I just don't see myself having kids. It feels like it's too much burden, or maybe it's because I'm only in my early 20s
I am 32 yo, and no, I didn't change my mind yet, and don't think I ever will.
I like kids, they are cute and curious and is amazing seeing they grow and learn, but I know that I don't have the desire to have my own. I will be the funny aunt who gives nice presents and drinks white wine. reply
I consciously decided at the ripe age of 11 that I aint having kids, been over 10 years and I still feel the same
I enjoy spending time with my baby cousins and nephews, and kids usually like me for some reason. Hanging out with kids in a control environment for a short time is fun, babies can be rlly cute and silly so being around them is nice. Pr...... reply
Lowkey my reasoning was because the side effects of giving birth and having to carry a child out weighed everything else for me. Society puts so much pressure on women for motherhood I wouldn’t be able to handle body dysmorphia on top of that. But I actually discussed this with my friend once. More likely I see myself adopting or becoming a step ...... reply
I admit sometimes I do think about adopting a kid if I ever get my life together, then I think about the responsibility of it all, and how I know I wouldn't be able to discipline children properly because of the way I was brought up, and I think it's probably best if I just don't have kids at all. And also my family have made it very clear to me th...... reply
My family's parents and my family as well.
Mother and father's side of family are all trash leechers who wants money and are really toxic people.
Then as the oldest child I saw how my family struggle in the past and now too to live till the end of the month, there were times when we couldn't afford much food (I had a complexed relationship with foo...... 1 reply
