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i dont usually ask for advice on here but some of yall are really good at it
so this morning my best friends dad passed away, they had a complicated relationship he had some controversial views in life that she didnt agree with and he once tried to hit her but at the same time he was her dad the last few months he kinda tried with her and gave her money and all but i have no idea how to comfort her, we tend to talk more in person but i havent been able to see her yet, shes bareley texted and she said that shes okay but i feel bad for just leaving things there but i also dont want to pry and it upsets me knowing what shes going through as i lost my mom when i was younger but i dont wanna compare my experiences with hers. plz help im rlly bad at this stuff
All u can do is put the ball in her court and she decides if she wants to say anything to u great or if she wants space and that’s cool too. be like “ hey, I know how hard it is to lose a parent, Ill be here for u anytime if you need anything or need anyone to talk to I love you “ that’s all u can really say making sure she knows u there fo...... reply
Grief is different for everybody.
If she had a bad relationship with her dad, that can also make things difficult. She might not feel sad in the same way as you did with your mother. Loss can bring bad memories, and thoughts of "what if we had more time and things got actually better?". Anyway there's a lot of ways someone can feel about losing s...... reply
Just let her be, people grieving usually just need time alone for themselves. To reflect or anything. Just watch out for her in case she does anything serious, tell her you're always there and that if she needs an ear you're there. If she insists she's fine there's not much you can really do. reply
I’m really bad with things like this so bear with me when something bad happens to me I prefer to just have other people pretend like everything is normal and i know that’s not what most other people want….
I’d invite her to hang out. You don’t even have to do anything in particular, she might just not want to be alone right now. When you...... reply
