i dont usually ask for advice on here but some of yall are really good at it

so this morning my best friends dad passed away, they had a complicated relationship he had some controversial views in life that she didnt agree with and he once tried to hit her but at the same time he was her dad the last few months he kinda tried with her and gave her money and all but i have no idea how to comfort her, we tend to talk more in person but i havent been able to see her yet, shes bareley texted and she said that shes okay but i feel bad for just leaving things there but i also dont want to pry and it upsets me knowing what shes going through as i lost my mom when i was younger but i dont wanna compare my experiences with hers. plz help im rlly bad at this stuff