I swear I know the name I just forgot it

Anyone knows this one game where it's like 18+, a pixelated type of game, where you can choose your own gender and sexuality. You can costumize the appearance of MC too. I swear someone actually mentioned the game's name before here on the forum, there's like a bunch of love interest(?) both male and female, one has a blue hair I think, there's also tentacles shit happening, idk why, I haven't played the game myself YET, but I'm now looking for it, and well ended up in a different game from itch, holy shit the game I'm playing is so fucking GAY, i need more, I need to know the games name in looking for UGHHHH


Also it has its own site where you can download it, not from itch, it literally has its OWN site, y'all help me PLEASE IM FARTING