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Can yall gimme a relationship advice
so I was talking to this guy for like a month. I liked him and wanted to know him better so I texted first and all. we started talking and I flirted a lot to make my intentions clear. he did flirt back so I thought okay he’s interested. but his biggest problem was he replies after like 20 hrs. I asked him about it and he said there’s no particular reason. sometimes he’d leave me on seen or just reply selectively. still, whenever he did reply he was sweet so I ignored it. we even exchanged numbers and met once, and he was the one who initiated our first date. then we talked about dating and he said if I wanna date him there are “conditions”. I was like okay tell me, I’ll decide. but he proceeds to say tht its not some bs terms nd all, im like ok fine js say nd he goes "it needs time to discuss ttyl" nd disappears. next day I text him nd he ghosts me for 2 days right after we talked about dating?1 then suddenly replies “we gotta meet for this cuz its gonna take time” nd ignores everything else I said. that pissed me off so I ignored him for 2 days too. I’ve literally told him twice to reply properly and he said he would.
and now today he goes “you done? look I legit dont care about taking the initiative at all.”
like wow. his whole demeanor just switched like that. I M NOT FREAKING DATING A GUY LIKE THIS, PLS SOMEONE JST TELL ME A GOOD FREAKING REPLY TO PUT THIS MOFO IN HIS PLACE. I TOOK THE INITIATIVE CUZ I LIKED YOU FIRST NOT THAT I M DESPERATE FOR THIS.
Honestly, I'm glad you didn't go ahead with it. Your first minor mistake was ignoring the lack of explanation for his late replies to his sweet talk. Late replies are understandable, but not explaining why isn't. I think you should drop this guy and not drag things out. There are plenty of fish in the sea. A spicy reply won't help. If he knows how ...... 2 reply
I'mma say when a man genuinely likes you he will do anything just to chat with you, make up any reason just to do so and won't leave u on read for like 90% a day. That person just playing with you or just likes your attention. That alone told me this guy isn't good. reply
Whatever the reason be for the switch up (forget switch up, he did not seem interested from the very beginning with how you described it) it does not matter, nor do you need to dig into it. Move on. It's barely a month of talking and all that. You know you are not gonna date him so no point in talking to him any further. Whatever reply you give to ...... 1 reply
Maybe I could have excused the late replies, but him telling you there are ''conditions'' for dating him and being so discreet? That's a hell no from me, sista. Don't play his game and waste your time. This seems so stupid and suspicious, if he has certain conditions, then say so. Why are we being so secretive? 1 reply
Let me tell it to you straight, the moment he took 20hrs to respond that was a wrap. A man that wants you lets you KNOW he wants you. I literally dated a guy that 6 months into dating (yes I take my time getting to know them) he was already planning to ask me out WITH a promise ring. He was constantly planning dates, giving me gifts etc, so yeah gi...... 2 reply
look idk where u are from but i js can't help but remember a very famous movie dialogue, the movie is called "jab we met"(when we met). the main character's "boyfriend"/situationship leaves her, gives her this stupid reply when they meet, so she calls him up after a while. the dialogues goes(I'm translating it, not literally but feeling wise)– yo...... 1 reply
