bridgerton season 5 hate is wierd

so many people are hating on francesca and michaela, saying her story is ruined, and there shouldn't be a lesbian love story. they're quoting reasons like the struggles of francesca not being able to have children are going to get "ignored", and her friend of losing her husband is not taken "seriously". and the wlw should've been introduced for eloise's character. what you all think about it? i personally do NOT get the hate. the infertility issues and grief can be processed even if she gets with a woman. and some people are accusing francesca of emotional cheating.
personally it feels like double standards, so y'all were okay when benedict was bi, and anthony was emotionally cheating on kate's little sister, but now it's a wlw so it's a problem. straight women are homophobic as well, it's just that mlm romance (like heated rivalry) "turns them on" and they find it "hot" to see gay action that's why they enjoy mlm but not wlw.
the way women are turning around justifying that they're not homophobic but the storyline is not good–no.
the thing is, they don't find two women hot together. that's the problem. and it's fine if you don't want to watch it, but hating is wierd.
like straight women will love seeing a "rake"(walking STD) get with a "blushing" innocent virgin, and a big power imbalance, but as soon as it's two women (who became friends first) it's suddenly a problem? look at our feminists dawg we ain't never making it out of patriarchy and heteronormativity.