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For straight relationship, Is Significant Other know you read yaoi?
Or r u hiding this hobby from them? How do you do so when you always with them?
If you from a conservative country, do you come clean about this hobby?

I'm from conservative country. Sadly Lgbtq isn't widely accepted here. Finding someone who simply has open minded is difficult af. When dating, I have no problem being a fujoshi. But for marriage, how can I able to leave my only happy time with BL?? I'm this old, one of the reason rn I didn't chose marriage because of this concern. Help, If you have some experiences.

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AnxAnimal 05 04,2026

My husband is my best friend. Me reading whatever I want to read is not a deep dark secret and I'm not ashamed (mostly ╮⁠(⁠.⁠ ⁠❛⁠ ⁠ᴗ⁠ ⁠❛⁠.⁠)⁠╭ ) . Did I ever tell him explicitly? No but I don't hide it either - why marry someone you have to hide from? That being said I had the freedom to look for a partner that is...... 1 reply

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Bear 05 04,2026

I personally don't care about finding someone to share my hobby with irl. If someone around me ends up discovering this, oh well I couldn't care any less. I've got this one dude online and we both talk about anything and everything on this god damn earth with no filter, so there's that. My brother's just another me fr. As for you and the marriage ...... 1 reply

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Orappleton 05 04,2026

Why the hell are people calling themselves fujoshis like it’s normal. Just say you like BL bro? Anyways before you even date someone you gotta say one liners like “im gonna read some fanfic now” or “I love reading romance stories” unless what you read is straight up porn (like all they do is fuck and there is no substance)they shouldn...... 2 reply

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Whodacrush 05 04,2026

my boyfriend knows and sometimes i force him to watch bl shows w me lmaoo but he doesnt know about like the more extreme things 2 reply

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Him 05 04,2026

I wonder where you're from, but in my case, my SO knows from the start that I love BL. I don't hide it, but I also don't show what I read because SO is uncomfy with reading that sort of thing. But at that point, it's better to be single than so be in a relationship where you have to hide a part of yourself from your SO. reply

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UkeLover69 05 04,2026

Well your S/O (if they are conservative) would be rude about it, probably controll you and ur BL time. My reading is not a hobby tho, its life lowkey so just keep quiet about it sadly. Better yet, find an ally because allys usually dont care about fujos 1 reply

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bubbles 05 04,2026

I'm also from a conservative country, with islam majority and boi are most of them homophobic. But fuck it, almost everyone I'm close to (or at least I trust to not trash talk me) know I read BL. I didn't try to avoid homophobic people bc sometimes it's just taught to them, not exactly coming from them. But if they wanna, I'd also enjoy a lovely (c...... 2 reply

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SENTiMYST 05 04,2026

Hi, I'm from a conservative country. I have a couple of homophobic friends who knows about my fudanshi-ing hobbies (I barely hide it anyway), but don't clown me and sometimes are even curious in what I'm reading. It's just about how open minded and close you and the people you are friends with, but I highly suggest to find people you click with. I...... reply

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Overweightedpotatoe 05 04,2026

i dont have any expirirences but i feel like this depends on if u really like them that much and is serious bc to me u can just find someone else but yaoi is my hobby/interest and life would be super hard without. Same goes for ur partner bc someone who loves u needs to accept u for what u are. But like u dont have to nesscarliy review ur extreme p...... reply

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