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I don't know what to do
My grandma passed away 2 weeks ago, maybe 3, I have been upset and just holding on but the thing that made me lose it and just cry out of hopelessness is that my mum just broke down, she hasn't been the same since. She's always crying and I don't know how to help her, she's always staring onto her pictures and acting like everything is is fine, but the moment she's alone she cries to her mum.
I'm crying because my mum is crying for her own mum, I feel so lost and confused, like I want to help but I don't know how, im writing this in hopes anyone can understand how I feel, im upset that my grandma passed away but im even more upset to the point I feel kinda depressed at my mum is not the same anymore, it's like im talking to someone else. I have to now clean and care for my brothers, cook for them, buy food from the nearby stores, pretend everything is okay but im crying cause I feel like im not doing enough for my mum.
not at all, I get that at the moment you feel helpless to do anything, but just being there for her is enough, im sure she appreciates you immensely. Grief takes a long time to heal internally, it can sometimes even last a lifetime, but she can get better and she will, trust me. I think for now, you're doing the best you can. that's just my 2 cents...... reply
Idk if you will see this but no you’re not weird for reacting that way
greif looks different for everybody and greif can be confusing like ‘ why am I crying for this person even if they didn’t treat me well’ or ‘why am I not greifing for this person that I cared a lot about ‘
it’s a hard time rn I’m in a similar situation my grand...... reply
